<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post5099506183633759977..comments</id><updated>2009-10-31T21:15:01.456-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Our Life Upstate: I Really Should Not Watch Private Practice</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/feeds/5099506183633759977/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html'/><author><name>Upstatemomof3</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16862359333933751151</uri><email>upstatemomof3@yahoo.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-9181826962988529112</id><published>2009-10-31T21:15:01.456-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T21:15:01.456-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I watch Private Practice. I didn't really think th...</title><content type='html'>I watch Private Practice. I didn&amp;#39;t really think that deeply on the issue though. I thought it was convenient of the husband to all of a sudden be back in the picture after abandoning his wife and then demand they get &amp;quot;their&amp;quot; baby back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I find that whenever I have strong opinions about something I haven&amp;#39;t personally dealt with they end up changing when someone close to me goes through something like that. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&amp;#39;t have a personal understanding of infertility because I have never gone through it. I don&amp;#39;t know the heartbreak associated with it, so therefore can&amp;#39;t completely relate to someone going through it, but I can show compassion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was adopted and intellectually I understand it and think adoption is a wonderful thing. Then I got pregnant and my view completely changed. I was suddenly hit with this wall of emotional abandonment that I had never felt that strongly before, that had only been awakened when I had my own children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;ve rambled long enough and I don&amp;#39;t even know what my point was LOL.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/9181826962988529112'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/9181826962988529112'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1257038101456#c9181826962988529112' title=''/><author><name>Veronica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04633663187668003762</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16176948111973004325'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5010847754514264245</id><published>2009-10-31T13:39:35.743-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T13:39:35.743-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Don't watch the show myself, but what a dilemma!

...</title><content type='html'>Don&amp;#39;t watch the show myself, but what a dilemma!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Late VGNO &amp;amp; Halloween, too!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/5010847754514264245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/5010847754514264245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1257010775743#c5010847754514264245' title=''/><author><name>Carolee / Home4ever</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03241629430901107593</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-3759137877253092959</id><published>2009-10-30T19:33:51.619-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T19:33:51.619-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow!!  That is a maddening episode.  I watched thi...</title><content type='html'>Wow!!  That is a maddening episode.  I watched this show some the first season, and liked it.  The thing about it is that they work so hard to crash the viewers emotionally.  I mean, this is a really far-reaching storyline.  It&amp;#39;s not something that is happening out there everyday.  And it sounds like the characters have some issues of their own (especially that husband)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope that you have a nice VGNO!!  Stress free!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/3759137877253092959'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/3759137877253092959'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1256945631619#c3759137877253092959' title=''/><author><name>Tracie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07908908021649000930</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-2696323216691805205</id><published>2009-10-30T19:30:27.855-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T19:30:27.855-04:00</updated><title type='text'>That's just wrong.

I don't watch this show, but s...</title><content type='html'>That&amp;#39;s just wrong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&amp;#39;t watch this show, but since we&amp;#39;ve embarked on the adoption path I am blown away by the increasingly rude comments people choose to make....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My most recent comment was from my boss who questioned why I would want some &amp;quot;washed up toddlers&amp;quot; out of foster care instead of trying for a newborn....ignorance....</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/2696323216691805205'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/2696323216691805205'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1256945427855#c2696323216691805205' title=''/><author><name>Yaya</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03953753420683325819</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-4188191512302295767</id><published>2009-10-30T18:05:31.713-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T18:05:31.713-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Don't let it bother you- it's just a TV show writt...</title><content type='html'>Don&amp;#39;t let it bother you- it&amp;#39;s just a TV show written by some single 23 year old guy probably.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have a fun Halloween and VGNO!&lt;br /&gt;http://iamharriet.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-much-candy-should-kid-eat-on.html</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/4188191512302295767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/4188191512302295767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1256940331713#c4188191512302295767' title=''/><author><name>I am Harriet</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14018601282810481033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-3863020678580036071</id><published>2009-10-30T17:08:30.184-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T17:08:30.184-04:00</updated><title type='text'>ugh I just typed up a huge thing &amp; google wouldn't...</title><content type='html'>ugh I just typed up a huge thing &amp;amp; google wouldn&amp;#39;t post the dang thing so Ill give u the short version!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was very grumpy when the show ended! Bonding has NOTHING to do with DNA! But not only did that upset me but how in the heck can that stupid husband walk back in &amp;amp; claim this child as his own when he wanted it abort it in the first place! Now that his wife isn&amp;#39;t carrying another womans baby he wants her &amp;amp; his biological son back? HECK NO! GRRRRR ok ill stop my blood pressure is rising :P</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/3863020678580036071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/5099506183633759977/comments/default/3863020678580036071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html?showComment=1256936910184#c3863020678580036071' title=''/><author><name>Jess</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02072478088698818018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05618401443906398997'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ourlifeupstate.com/2009/10/i-really-should-not-watch-private.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8363512116787139255.post-5099506183633759977' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8363512116787139255/posts/default/5099506183633759977' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>