Comments on Our Life Upstate: The Things We Do Not Share

Great topic and question! It is one I've been con...

2010-03-01T22:28:20.654-05:00

Great topic and question! It is one I've been considering a lot lately, since I just started blogging a few DAYS ago :) Do I blog about my fusterations with my ex-husband? What if his grandma, with whom I still have a great relationship reads it? I will continue thinging about this topic, thanks!

I've toyed with the idea of an anonymous blog. I ...

2010-03-01T21:51:56.190-05:00

I've toyed with the idea of an anonymous blog. I find myself censoring things on my blog all the time. My in-laws read, so I can't write about how frustrated they make me. My friends read, so I can't write about decisions I don't agree with. The list goes on.

I tell my husband and 1 very good friend most things. I say most things because I'm sure that there are things I haven't told them, but most big things we talk about.

My blog, my FB, my Twitter, however, they are always written with a sense of protection.

I tell my husband everything. I think it is import...

2010-03-01T12:11:29.974-05:00

I tell my husband everything. I think it is important to keep the lines of communication open between spouses. However I don't share everything about myself and my life on my blog. Starting an anonymous blog and posting life details does sound tempting, but I don't think I will do that.

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I often fantasize about setting up an anonymous bl...

2010-03-01T11:23:51.828-05:00

I often fantasize about setting up an anonymous blog where I can say anything I want and not have to worry about anyone I know reading it knowing it is me. I share everything with my husband except my ever-present lurking fear about the state of our marriage. I talk about it a bit, but when nothing changes to fix things I have to let it go so I can get by. I find I tend to be most honest in other people's comment boxes. Like here. You know where I am and how to find me but no one else who I know knows I was here, so this is my secret hiding place for sharing my innermost thoughts.

oh absolutely. I share EVERYTHING with my husband,...

2010-02-28T23:48:22.490-05:00

oh absolutely. I share EVERYTHING with my husband, but no one else. I share a fair amount on my anonymous blog/twitter, but my "real" one not as much. I think you have to make choices, and what you put out there, especially on the internet, you have to know it can come back to haunt you.