Ridiculous Neighbors

So, last summer I wrote about the issues we have had with our neighbors. These are very difficult people to deal with on a regular basis and the truth is that we really got a bum deal living behind these people. Honestly, I wish (and hope and pray) that they move away one day. They are difficult and obnoxious and mean. The husband is loud about it and the wife is just mean but either way they are ridiculous. The kids are fine (it is pretty much amazing they are as nice as they are).

So, as soon as the Spring hit and the nice weather came around once again our town was getting call after call from these people about our dog. Again, I get that he is loud and annoying. But if I am mindful to make sure he is not barking (outside - remember they complain when he barks from inside the house too) too long I don't see why they would want to waste their time calling the town over and over to complain. After the second notice from the town to notify us that the neighbors were complaining again I decided to try to work this out with the town. Since there was no chance I could work it out with the neighbors. I asked the town dog controller if we could all (us, the neighbors and her) sit down and establish times and length of time that it was reasonable for me to let the dog outside. She said that that was just something that was not done.

She did however start an official investigation. I only know this because a few other neighbors informed me that they had heard from her and that they had no problems with the dog. I am guessing that that ended with her essentially on our side. I don't know that officially. I never heard one way or the other. But it is a guess.

So, on a side note I have to add that these people like to have bonfires in their backyard. Really big ones. Maybe twenty feet from their house (forty or so feet from our house). It makes me nervous. I hate it. We called the fire department once a few years ago to have them put it out. Then they didn't have anymore - until last year. After the big fight. Hubby was under the impression that we had come to an understanding. That we were supposed to deal with the fires and they were going to deal with the dog. I hated this and every time they had a fire last fall I was a nervous wreck and up all night worrying and watching. But I let it go. Honestly, I hated doing that but Hubby really wanted me to so I did - for him.

But once they called about the dog again Hubby and I agreed that I no longer had to deal. I could feel free to call whenever there was a fire. Last Saturday night there was a fire. I called. The fire department came and made them put it out. I was able to sleep. But I knew they were made and something would come of it.

Today they called the SPCA and reported that we were away for several days and we had left the dog home alone. Unfortunately, I was upstairs and did not hear it when the SPCA investigator stopped by. But we called him right back and he said he saw the cars and heard the radio (I blast it while Baby Sister is napping) and that he didn't even hear a dog so he really wasn't concerned. Plus, now that I had called him back he knew I was obviously home. So, that was it. I have no idea what is coming next. I am, however, guessing that sometimes soon (tonight or tomorrow perhaps) they will have another fire and the fire department will be getting a call from me.

The whole situation would be kind of amusing except that Big Brother is a little afraid of the guy and VERY afraid of the fires. I hate that he worries that our house will burn down. Although it has given us a good opportunity to go over fire safety and what he should do if there is a fire in our house (get out, where to wait for us, stop,drop and rool, DO NOT HIDE IN A CLOSET, etc).

So, in addition to being my crazy story of the week I am posting this for VGNO because, well... if I were attending an IRL party I would definitely be telling this story. So, happy VGNO. Oh and if you do not know what VGNO is go on over and check out party central over at Ann's.

22 Comments:

  1. This is terrible what kind of people are these setting fires and picking on a animal real jerks huh. HAPPY VGNO
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  2. What a horrible situation. That anyone would lie about you being gone in an effort to get your dog taken away from you. I think you need to call Judge Judy! Happy VGNO
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  3. Awe :0( I'm sorry. We have a cat, but I hear ya sometimes neighbors just are a little nutty...mine decides to play piano at 2:30am. Mind you, at least he's good, but still...really? 2:30am? Really???
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  4. I'm so sorry you have "EVIL" neighbors. So do I and they don't like my dog either.

    But, you know, some people, you just can't please. They are so unhappy with themselves and their own life, that they don't want anyone else to be happy either.

    Happy VGNO! Happy Mother's Day!
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  5. Good grief, they sound like real winners. Luckily my current neighbors are reallly nice (retired pastor on one side, quiet couple on the other), however the lady that lived next door to us originally was a real pill! Luckily she moved after 6 months..and good riddance, we were here first! :)

    GwennS
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  6. Some neighbors can just ruin people's lives. FIRE is dangerous. Don't those crazy people know that? A barking dog isn't. My neighbors dogs bark all day long and I have never called anyone about it. They bark at night sometimes too. Still haven't called. The guy next door is a "knucklehead" according to my hubby. People like your neighbors are just immature ******** that don't know how to handle a situation properly. I could go on and on and on, but I better stop now.
    Enjoy your VGNO - and make sure your garden hose is ready to roll tonight.
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  7. Oh we are so similar!!!! My one neighbor is always calling us to complain if our dogs bark for 2 minutes. So annoying. Or she likes to come over as we pull in the driveway to let us know that our dogs were barking (in the house, mind you) during the day. And I'm thinking 'lady, you are the only freaking one home during the day!'. And then what aggravates me the most is that her two sons are always playing in our yard! We have a little hill/ditch in our yard and the neighborhood kids like to play there-splashing mud all over our house, digging up our yard for worms, etc etc. We never say anything. Argh!!

    I would so be calling again when they have a fire.

    TGIF and Happy VGNO!
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  8. Bad neighbors can really make life difficult. I am always mindful of our dogs, but sometimes they bark, but all in all our neighbors are pretty good!

    Congrats on "retiring" from daycare, something I don't think I could have ever done! KUDOS!
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  9. I have a girlfriend going through a battle with her neighbors and they are calling the landlord in FL instead of facing her headon. They even had the nerve to say that my gf's childern crossed the line in the drive way and were playing on her property. GF also has a dog who stays in the house all day so when GF gest's home she leashes him. Oh, how they complain about him barking, but come on.....it's because he's outside. So I do feel your pain. I hope you can get this straightened out.

    Meanwhile have a Happy Mother's day and a great VGNO
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  10. We've been lucky with our neighbors.

    Happy VGNO! and have a great weekend.
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  11. Ack! Sorry for the un-neighborliness. That makes it hard to relax and enjoy your home. Sending peaceful vibes your way.~~~~~~~~~~
    Happy VGNO!
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  12. Wow, what a mess. It's a terrible thing when neighbors fight especially this badly. You begin to wonder if you can leave your home. I hope it all works out for you. I don't blame you calling for those fires. Too close for comfort.
    Happy VGNO.
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  13. Yikes, they sound like they might related to my obnoxious neighbors! Gosh, I hope that they get some kind of promotion and move far, far away! Happy VGNO and happy Mother's Day!
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  14. Excuse my language but your neighbor sounds like a real jerk. I know bon fires can be a lot of fun but if you are living in a residential neighborhood they should be contained in a small fire pit. Big bon fires should in my opinion only be lit in a large yard or on several acers out in the country.

    Have a wonderful weekend and a Happy "fire free" Mother's Day!
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  15. OH MY GOODNESS....your neighbors are totally crazy!! I am so sorry....

    Hope you are able to enjoy Mother's Day...happy VGNO.
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  16. Bad neighbors are the WORST!I hope they do move. Happy VGNO!
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  17. OH MY GOSH!!!!!! PURE CRAZINESS What in the world are they thinking starting bon fires in the backyard!!!! My moms neighbor started a dutch oven in his shed then headed to church yup you guessed it it burned half his house down!!! What posses ppl to such stupidity!!! *sigh*
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  18. OMG -- Fires??? Hello,,,so wrong. Since when can't you leave a dog home alone?? It's not a kid. WTF. They sound crazy. OMG -- my nice neighbors are moving. I am so afriad of losers like that moving in next to us. so sorry this stress is in your life -- like you don't have enough to do. Good Luck from fellow upstate mom!
    http://chattykathyw-s.blogspot.com
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  19. Oh my I would lose my mind with people like that. Sorry you are having such a hard time with them. Hope everything can get worked out. TFS

    Hope you have a wonderful Mothers Day!
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  20. Wow. Apparently crappy neighbors are contagious! Here's to hoping they pack up and ship out!
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  21. I would be really nervous about those fires as well. I think that where ever you go there will always be that one neighbour that you just can't get a long with. (I have them too)
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  22. Was gone this weekend. Hope you had a great VGNO!
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